I’m Moving?
I’m moving! Not really all that far from where I live now, but still moving. From the south side of Norman to the north side of Moore. Its less than twenty miles between the apartment I occupy now and the apartment I will live in tomorrow. I’m moving because the twenty-five minutes it takes to get between these two locations will cut my current commute to work by around half. Also because there are a ton of spiders in the stairwell of my current apartment and I just don’t want to deal with it. There are other benefits like I’ll be closer to church and my aunt and uncles house, but mostly the commute and the spiders.
The apartment I’m moving to is nice. The parking lot is gated, the stairs to my apartment will be indoors instead of outdoors and the two bedroom two bath was somehow cheaper than the two bed one bath option, so bonus bathroom for guests.
I have not mentally processed this move in any way shape or form. I have run from one thing to the next since spring and while I did at one point decide moving closer to work was something I should do and at some other point looked at and picked this apartment to be the one that I want to live in next, I have not taken any time to think about what that means. Since I’m moving tomorrow I really don’t have time to do that now either, but I’m going to.
Mentally Processing
I’ve lived in my apartment for three years. If you ask me while I’m at work why I moved to Oklahoma three years ago I will probably tell you I followed a job. That’s the short answer I give when I don’t want to go into all the detail. In reality that was a very small part of my original thought process for moving. I moved here because it was the right thing to do at the time. If it was only because I followed a job I would not have ever lived in Norman and worked in Oklahoma City, the commute is awful. The truth is I moved here to run away from Arkansas for a while and to do anything I could to help my family in Norman.
My aunt, uncle, cousins and Nana all lived in Norman when I took the job in OKC. I didn’t know why, but every time I came to visit I felt like I was needed in Norman. This feeling is how I’ve ended up everywhere I’ve been in life so far. Thats another story for another time, but things have always worked out better when I followed that calling. Thats how God works I guess. The reason I was running away from Arkansas is a great example of me ignoring what I knew was right because I wanted something for myself that wasn’t supposed to work out for me the way I wanted it to. That door closing was rough and I was more than happy to get away from all that. Again thats another story that I wasn’t trying to get into.
The Church
I moved here in August of 2013 and immediately heard wonderful things about LifeChurch.tv. There was a campus in South Oklahoma City and while they were in the process of building in Moore that campus wouldn’t open till late December. It’s like a 35 minute drive to the South OKC campus from Norman, but we went and we loved it. My aunt and uncle had some different opinions about churches in the past. They grew up in two different denominations and worship is something that is hard to agree on even if everyone grew up in the same church. This church made no sense for either of them to like. It was loud, there was a light show and everyone was jumping around on stage like they had no sense. To me it was exactly what I expected because that was what we were building in Jonesboro while I was in college. SIDE NOTE: If you are in or around Jonesboro, AR go to Journey Campus! It’s amazing there! Amazingly everyone pretty much loved it. It was maybe a little too loud for my uncle, but he figured out that he could sit outside in the lobby area and drink a tea and still hear the music at a volume he could enjoy it at and then come in and enjoy the sermon with us. The sermon that was delivered by video…
Side Note: The Sermon
These crazies in this church were talking to the screen like Craig could hear them through it somehow. He would say repeat after me and these people would do it even though they were talking to a projector screen. It took some getting used to, but despite having never seen Craig in person he always managed to bring a sermon that was perfectly what we needed to deal with. Now we have joined the crazies in talking back to the screen because.. honestly I have no idea why… I guess agreeing with your pastor verbally is more for you than him.
My family was excited to go to church every week and we were super disappointed if something came up that prevented us from attending. Sundays became top priority for all of us. We went to church and spent the entire rest of the day together eating, watching community on Hulu and falling asleep all across my aunt and uncles house.
Bait and …
Eventually the Moore Campus opened and me and the cousins started Switch. Switch is LifeChurch’s student ministry. I started serving, leading a high school small group. It was easy since I had been leading groups since I was a student. My youth pastor was awesome and let us take on leadership roles at an early age. My cousins got plugged in and pretty quickly had a ton of influence in Switch and later in the Moore campus as a whole. Ok well technically Allie was living in Arkansas getting homeschooled by my Mom for a year because that’s where God had her for that time, but Nolan was getting super involved and when Allie came back the next year she got super involved too.
When I say they got super involved I mean it. The entire staff knew my cousins and they got nominated to go to a leadership camp thing that only the best of the best from each campus’ student ministry got to go to. They started serving in LifeKids (children ministry) on the weekends, and eventually both applied for internships. Allie was technically too young to be an intern, but the staff at Moore Campus insisted that they interview her anyway and Central Campus listened for some reason. Nolan quite playing baseball to make time for serving on Wednesday’s and Sunday’s which was a huge deal. Baseball had been a huge part of his life since before he was even born. Both my cousins got to intern this past summer and thats awesome! That interview process was intense and for good reason. The internship expected a lot of them. If your church doesn’t have an internship please talk to someone at LifeChurch about what that needs to look like because they are doing something amazing with this.
Now
Nolan is now in his freshman year at OU and he and his roommate co-lead a middle school switch group. His girlfriend also leads a middle school switch group which is awesome. I’m still leading my high school group with a co leader that was one of the oldest guys in my group when I started leading here.
A lot has changed in three years, but for now I’m pretty sure I’m still supposed to be in Oklahoma. This apartment in Moore should work better as a centralized place for LAN parties and board game nights. Having a spare bed and bathroom means more people can come and not have to drive home late at night. When I first moved here it was obvious that I was here for Nolan and Allie, but now they’ve got it figured out and I’m not sure exactly where I’m needed next. I know I’m in the right church and in the right location so all I can really do is keep influencing as many people around me as I can. Till God pulls me somewhere else, I guess I’m here.